If you were to analyse your status or achievements with your wife or girlfriend,which category do you belong above?
Why is that we now witnessed many career minded women not “jumping in the marraige bandwagon”?They are turning 30+ and many 40+ and above still remaining single and very eligible but not interesting to find The Man of their lives yet!Why?
Ramli heard many women professionals in Singapore are still unmarried and rather be single and free.There are some even adopt children and willing to look after these kids as their own without the need of a man or husband where children called “dad”
Is it good or safe to marry a Rich Man?Women always want the best of the worlds but many prefer wealth assurance rather than just handsome men,right?
Good looks and trendy life style also need economic power where many times the “power of the wallet” speaks more than the “power in the pants”…hahaha
However like all commodities the quantity of wealthy men are not many and so they are easily being “grabbed or snatched away” by these Smart,Beautiful and Hard Working women who really knows what they want in the lives.So,whats left behind are the weaker men who need to unleash their talents to become soon to be wealthy men and a great excitement to women in search of the right husband with wealth,looks and security.If these men cannot unleash their talents soon then they may become “ordinary men” and remain so for the rest of their lives..
So,being a Rich Wife can be possible by having a Rich Husband unless the Rich Husband keep all the wealth to himself and only provide the “crumbs” to his wife…However if the wife is smart and strong willpower then she too will become a Rich Wife who ensure she gets a share of the husband’s wealth if she is not a working lady just a housewife.If the women is a career lady and holding high post then she will become a Rich Wife maybe richer than her husband like some of our Malaysian Women Ministers and CEOs..Ramli is sure their wallet or handbag is much “heavier” than their husbands?
In marriage is also not about money only BUT many will agree that it is also important to have LOVE,CARING,PASSION,TRUST AND ALL THOSE POSITIVE PERSONALITIES..
Many marriages broke down due to loss of love,no passion to each other and “tidak apa” attitude plus others…why this happen?
Maybe,some say marraige is great for the first 3 years then become ordinary after the 5th year and turning cold after the 7th year and worst after the 10th year BUT now the Gen Y seem to end their marriage even before the wedding expenses (bills) are completely settled or paid in full for!Why?
The divorce rates in Selangor D.E. for Muslim couples are alarmingly high! About 5-8 cases of divorxce per day and if you multiply for the whole year then the divorces comes to about almost 2000 for the full year!If you multiply by the children without married parents then it will be about 5000 to 7000 children and that later can create lots of social problems to the homes and country.
So,its good to build more Great Husbands and Great Wives so that Malaysia possessed many Happy Homes with Happy Couples and Happy Children!
A Happy HOME is worth all the money in this world!Ask the Great Men and Women of this World?
Many homes are wreaked due to problems of indisciplined by men and women who prefer the greed,the lust and all the happy times of life befriending the Satan or Devil!Why?Is all about our Negative Personalities and we lack faith in Allah SWT (God Almighty) and we allow ourselves to indulge in events that can create more bad things rather than good outputs as we all really want in our lives!Maybe thats what they say good self disciplined and control.Ramli at times also falled in this trap of desires and foolish acts but when we positioned our FAMILY at the highest peak in our life then we come back to reality and stay on the right course of Happy Marriage and Future!
Maybe as a Muslim man,Allah SWT have made poligamy HALAL and Muslim Men must use all these rights of what have been made Halal to them and not be so passionate with all those HARAM ACTS anymore…HOWEVER poligamy can only be practised well and right for Muslim Men of Positive Personality who knows the importance of “adil,amanah,alim,ilmu” and so many good traits of a man with 2,3 or 4 wives!Please seek more “ilmu” from your nearest Ustaz (Ramli have only 1 wife,now!hahaha)
So,Great Husband and Great Wife is the way to GO and Pursue!Inshallah with your honest intentions,pure hearts and sincerity,YOU will find this person in your life and please treat this event of marraige as a SERIOUS one maybe like a Zero Defect campaign where we do not tolerate or allow marraiges to break down or create many sad moments in our lifetime.Yes,many people try to do it right the second time or third time and so forth BUT thats not the way to follow or have that kind of mindset!We must make our marraige work and last not for ourselves BUT more for our kids and our kids kids and so on…we are here to build our destiny and generations of love,hope,prosperity and happiness!Inshallah!
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